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yorkiemama1986 · 12-15-2009, 10:32 AM

*** candles lit for sweet pete***
i agree, yall need some marriage counseling or seriously have a sit down heart to heart talk. My husband use to b the same way. I have been with him for 5 years and have 2 beautiful little boys, working on our 3rd child, My yorkie Laynee and her 4 babies, plus 2 very old grumpy cats. and NONE of the above he wanted. lol.
we got married, he wasn't ready for kids but gave in and BAM...baby boy mike. he was getting ready for deployment and thought it wouldbe a bad idea for a second but gave in...BAM, baby boy Brai. I really wanted a dog after losing my last one and brought her home "without him knowing" and he fell in love. I went to cali to visit family and left her with a friend who male yorkie nailed her and now we have 4 pups (he wants to keep 2 of them now). And now this month h wants to try and have a little girl

. so after years of him "not wanting" things, we have a beautful family and he wouldn't dream differently. If he knew how much you were hurting over losing a child i wouldn't think he would be so anal (sorry). buti seriously think firsthand you really need to just spend some time talking (about EVERYTHING). You tell him that you don't have to agree on what he does/buys and he doesn't have to agree on what you do/buy. I mean seriously, he need a wake up call on these control issues

12-15-2009, 10:32 AM	#159
yorkiemama1986 YT Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: temple, tx, usa Posts: 374	* candles lit for sweet pete* i agree, yall need some marriage counseling or seriously have a sit down heart to heart talk. My husband use to b the same way. I have been with him for 5 years and have 2 beautiful little boys, working on our 3rd child, My yorkie Laynee and her 4 babies, plus 2 very old grumpy cats. and NONE of the above he wanted. lol. we got married, he wasn't ready for kids but gave in and BAM...baby boy mike. he was getting ready for deployment and thought it wouldbe a bad idea for a second but gave in...BAM, baby boy Brai. I really wanted a dog after losing my last one and brought her home "without him knowing" and he fell in love. I went to cali to visit family and left her with a friend who male yorkie nailed her and now we have 4 pups (he wants to keep 2 of them now). And now this month h wants to try and have a little girl. so after years of him "not wanting" things, we have a beautful family and he wouldn't dream differently. If he knew how much you were hurting over losing a child i wouldn't think he would be so anal (sorry). buti seriously think firsthand you really need to just spend some time talking (about EVERYTHING). You tell him that you don't have to agree on what he does/buys and he doesn't have to agree on what you do/buy. I mean seriously, he need a wake up call on these control issues __________________ Proud mommy of Mrs. Laynee &STELLA RAE Last edited by yorkiemama1986; 12-15-2009 at 10:34 AM.