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Originally Posted by Kirby  No offense was intended. I don't know the situation of the person who started this thread. I jumped to conclusions and I shouldn't do that, but I have known many woman who think it's up to the husband to decide. My husband and I will be celebrating our 12th anniversary next year. There has been a great deal of give and take, but there is also respect. When one person wants something so much, who am I to deny the person I love from reasonable happiness? Again, though, as I stated in my first post, perhaps her husband has a very good reason. This is a big decision that should be made together but not for the sake of control. |
I understand that! I have known some women who would not do anything without the approval of their husbands, and most of the times their husbands didn't approve. Goodness! Just for controlling reasons. I didn't end those friendships but I did distance myself because I couldn't deal with them coming to me for therapy discussions while they allow themselves to be controlled. Especially when their husbands did things without consulting them the majority of the time
to the OP: You know your situation. Do what's best for you in it
I love the post on this thread because I too am a strong willed and determined woman, and I know my husband could tell me NO, but I will get a YES. I wouldn't be me if I didn't
