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Originally Posted by Cha Cha  LOL, wouldn't we all love to know how often a woman has done that before. The fact that she got money from her father for her birthday to spend on herself, and her husband thinking that should be spent differently (possibly on himself) leads me to believe he is quite selfish and somewhat controlling. He may have very good reasons for wanting to spend the money differently, we don't really know their real situation. I am all about love and mutual respect in a perfect world too. It is also about give and take. If one person feels like they are giving more than their 50% then there is a good chance the other person feels like they have it pretty good. |
You are right--- none of us know the real situation behind closed doors.... and more importantly we are only getting one side fo the story.... so who knows.
Buttt even if her birthday money pays to buy the puppy there aer lots more expenses.
I have to get my puppy spayed next month and my vet charges close to $500.00...... which with al of her shots and puppy vet checks, I have now paid more than what I paid for her (I paid $1000.)
ANNNNNDDDD they need their teeth professionally cleaned once a year which runs around $300.
There are just so many other expenses when you get a puppy, that even if she pays for the puppy by herself, her husband is still going to be involved in later expenses.
and not to mention they already have two other furbabies.....