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Originally Posted by HendrixandLucy  OMG how is her husband being a selfish controll freak?! That is just crazy!
Ok lets say you have 2 kids already and you want another one, but your husband does not.
Does that mean you are just going to go and get pregnant without his knowing. Like I said before--- you are just going to go and not take your birth controll and go behind is back and get pregnant so you can get your way?
That is absurd and SOOOOOO disrespectful!
A MARRIAGE IS A UNION OF LOVE AND MUTUAL RESPECT and these posts are completely hyppocritical!
ALL DECISSIONS need to be made together in a healthy marriage ESPECIALLY when there are large ammounts of money involved. |
LOL, wouldn't we all love to know how often a woman has done that before. The fact that she got money from her father for her birthday to spend on herself, and her husband thinking that should be spent differently (possibly on himself) leads me to believe he is quite selfish and somewhat controlling. He may have very good reasons for wanting to spend the money differently, we don't really know their real situation. I am all about love and mutual respect in a perfect world too. It is also about give and take. If one person feels like they are giving more than their 50% then there is a good chance the other person feels like they have it pretty good.