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Originally Posted by yorkielover916  I do try to keep my DH's feelings in mind when I am going to spend a large amount of money on a puppy. btw, we usually dont ask each other for permission to do anything, but since this is a living thing that needs to be taken care of I think its something he should be in agreement with |
If i spent 800-1500 on a dog without being in agreement with my husband, that's really not fair. It's a trust issue, it's a money issue, it becomes a lot of bigger issues then just "SURPRISE! I got a dog you didn't want! but you want him/her now right? So cute!" Ya for that price, they better. That's a mortgage payment for f-sakes...
I know if my man went out and bought something for that price, without being in agreement with me, I'd freak out. I wouldn't care WHAT it was, those are decisions you make TOGETHER.
Even if the dog was FREE, a dog is a commitment that's not just an outfit you can take back.