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Originally Posted by TammyJM  Ok, let me first say that yes I am married and would be LIVID if my husband did the things that Tiger has done....ok, here's where I am probably going to have you guys throwing things at the computer screen.  How many men do you think would be loyal in this situation?? Not at all a "normal" situation...traveling, women that sought him out for the reason of having sex, more women doing the same thing, then traveling to the next city and then the whole thing starts all over again. Question....is Tiger the norm or do you think the way he handled it is the rare case? Seriously, how would most men deal with all of this...do you feel that Tiger's actions are off-base for how most men would behave in the same situation?
Please do not get mad at me for posting the above. Trust me....I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOO against cheating!!!!!! I am also NOT making excuses for him (because what he has done is awful and hurtful to his wife and child...plain and simple!!). But, really....do we sometimes expect these men to be super-human? Could he have said no....OF COURSE!!! But how insistant do you think these women have been? I can almost guarantee you they have been ruthless and have stopped at nothing and do not accept no.
Ok, now that I have written this, I hope you guys aren't mad at my random thoughts....and yes, I agree...12 women (and counting) is horrendous and completely without thought to his family. I just think that sometimes we, as a society, are quick to overlook the actions of women like the ones that he was involved with...we tend to get angry with the man and ignore that there was another person in the mix.
Ok, now ducking....... |
This is what one news commentater said last night and I turned the
channel
There is absolutely no excuse for what he did. I wouldn't care if a naked
women laid down in front of him egging him on, he should have some
morals IMO. That's exactally what's wrong in today's society.
Suppose his wife did this to him? My God she would be crucified!
The kids would be taken away from her and she would be booed from
here to kingdom come. Her life would be over as she knows it.
It seems excuses are being made for low lifes, (men) who do these kinds
of things. What happend to pride, committment and morals? Just because
it's there for the taking does not mean your in a position to take it.
That's what brains are for and I mean the ones in your head not the
ones he used!
Don't get married and hurt those who love you. Stay single and do what
you want. He has obligations to his family to be a decent human being.
He blew it, big time!
No, I'm not mad at you but there is just no right in this at all. No matter
how you look at it. We're all tempted everyday in one way or another.
He's weak, selfish and deserves what he get's. I hope she takes him
to the cleaner's.