I understand both sides of this argument.
My Rocky is not neutered either. He is fine the way he is and we do not have any problems with him, he doesn;t hump or mark his territory inside the house. He is also fine outside.
I also wanted to get a little girl later on so she could keep Rocky company, we can have pups, but the pups we will have I want to share with my parents, sister and closest of friends.
Also, I don't see my pup as a pet but as my little kid, a friend, part of me. Pet is someone you leave in the car, tie to a hydrant, play when only good for you. I think a dog is a lot more than that. Not trying to offend anyone, just my outlook on that note.
In your situation, I would see if spaying the female, or neutering the male would benefit them both and you. And yes, you have to put you foot down and let them know who's the boss. I think tapping the nose gently and saying NO might work a bit.
Good luck and I hope it all works out. |