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  My male, Buster is the cuddler.  If I am sitting, he has to be in my lap.  Maggie is content to sit close by.  If I try to put her in my lap she will stay for a few minutes then she will move on.  When we go to bed, Buster is right up next to me but Maggie wants to be further away.  Buster would never go upstairs unless I go but Maggie will go upstairs by herself  and lay on the bed.  Very different personalities.  
				__________________  Jeanie, mom to Buster and Maggie     |