I have 3 girls and 1 boy. The one girl, Matilda, is the most lovable dog on the face of the Earth. All she wants is to be held and loved. Kalina is the exact opposite. She's loving, but you have to catch her first. All she wants to do is play. The two puppies, one of each sex, are not really lovable right now. But if I had to pick one that is more lovable it would be the girl. Which doesn't mean that the boy hasn't stolen my heart, because he has. So, IMO you can't go wrong. Go with your heart. Good luck.