Initially after I lost my baby I wanted to turn away from all of my
[COLOR=green !important][COLOR=green !important]pets[/COLOR][/COLOR]. It was just so hard to lose them. That didn't last long as I started to worry excessively about them and things happening to them. I quickly became over protective of my remaining two. I caught myself and am now conscious of it and try not to be too overprotective. I still have to remind myself daily not to 'baby' them too much so as to not create separation anxiety. Petals leans to being clingy and I could easily see this becoming a problem for her if I nurture it.
Thanks for the insight. I did not even think about the possibility of creating new issues but I had one with separtation anxiety and I would hate to create that for these babies let alone to have to live through the guilt of leavibg them and hearing them cry.