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Originally Posted by BamaFan121s  "Tone" is an impossible thing to determine when things are typed and not written. Maybe instead of worrying about who is using the appropriate "tone"--something which no one here reserves the right to control--people should worry about the questions being asked and the information and answers being given. It baffles me every time I see answers given and people get beside themselves because regardless of what info was provided, heaven forbid it be worded in a way that others didn't approve of. 
Many of the responses you received were not because you couldn't adequately explain yourself...it was point blank because of some of the things you said that people didn't agree with. Also, it wasn't as "personal" as you seemed to have taken it. Any given person here--new or old member alike--would get the same kind of replies if they posted what you did with the same conviction behind their words. |
I was green, totally clueless. people accused me of having done things, and I wasn't even a breeder. I asked a question about something I read in a bolok. I still have the book and could give you the page and paragraph. I was raised on a farm. Life and death happened. Nature happened. I had nol idea that I would get that response.They were vicious. But like I said a few people understood.
I was trying to learn, what does a breeder do in that situation. Fortunately I have not had to make those decisions.