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Originally Posted by miikah rae  I'm pretty new to YT and every single thread I open up somebody is complaining about another person's advice or opinion being to harsh or out of line. I dont see what the problem is. People come here for advice whether good or bad nice or "mean". Hopefully we are adults here and can consider the fact that people are gonna have opinions whether we like it or not. People spend too much tme worryng about how the person responded and not the informaton in the responses. I have yet come across an "out of line" response to a question just honest heart felt opinions. Some things you just cant take to heart and think that they are attacks. If it was verbally said i'm pretty sure it wouldnt come off as harsh or out of line, it would just be two or more people having a discusson or debate about some thing that touches them deeply. Take what you can out of the answers to the question people ask. Nobody says you have to agree with what is being said but we are entitled to our opinions. The reason for this forum (at least that's what I thought) was information, opinions and what you can learn from others experiences whether negative or positive. It's not about who's better than who or the competition, it's about the knowledge whether good/bad. Take what you can out of all the answers. If everyone agreed with each other this forum wouldnt be interested and there would be no growth in the knowledge you can get from here. Stop all this complaining and get to the real deal which is the fact that people are gonna have opinions. Agree to disagree.
I wonder what the Yorkies are thinking about this nonsense. 
P.S. Dont take this as an "out of line" comment, it's surely out of good faith  |
Your post in no way pertains to what the OP asked. However, neither did several of the other responses I suppose. It strayed off topic before you posted. That being said though, I
completely agree with what you've stated.
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Originally Posted by Sugar's Mom The OP did not come here asking for tips or lectures on whether or not to breed altho someone saw fit to do just that. The questions he wanted answered were not even addressed in that big long lecture he got that he didn't ask for. Some of us tried to answer his questions and provide him with the info HE REQUESTED. |
Agreed.
I think that the OP got the answers he was looking for (regarding how to space out ties) and some other helpful information on top of that that he likely didn't know but desperately needed to be aware of (regarding a a first litter for a 4 yo not being ideal).
Generally speaking, I like to see people receiving the information they are looking for, but also, if something else presents itself that others can offer advice on, that's good to see too. For example, I would HOPE that if someone posted up asking for advice on some specific detail on breeding a 3 pound girl, that someone would have the gall to speak up and advise against it...whether it was specifically asked about or not.