I know exactly what you are going through!!! I have 3 babies and they all sleep with me! Sometimes they will jump down and get in their bed or even the hard floor
and DH hears me saying "Where is mommies babiesssssssssssssss"... This works most of the time (jealous one might get more attention than the next LOL) but sometimes it doesn't work and they are like "Whatev' cwazy do wady... We iz where we iz.. Whatcha gonna do about it"? My heart breaks!!!
Let me tell you the WORST heartbreak!!! I went to the beach and took Basil with me (girls week retreat) and left Teddy at home. He did NOT eat!!! DH had to give him chicken just to get food in him! He moped he cried he was just miserable!!! I worried about him but also was touched he missed ME SO BAD. We return from the beach and I couldn't wait to sweep him up in my arms and make him all better with MY kisses... He didn't want me... He ran right to Basil and jumped all over her giving HER love!!! I literally had tears in my eyes and told DH in a whimpy voice "I bought Basil a petttttttttttttt"... Wahhhhhhhh