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Originally Posted by ladyjane  No one has been mean to anyone...and no one has said anything mean about anyone.
People are merely saying that the OP does not seem to want help.
Over and over again I see people on YT jump up and down saying someone is being mean when they are merely voicing an opinion. If people do not want advice/opinions, they should not ask!
If anyone had been so horrible to this OP, one of the moderators would have banned them! I am sure someone has reported someone in this thread!
It is so lame to me that this kind of stuff comes up all of the time. It just feeds into that enabling mode imo. Anyone ever hear of tough love? Seriously! You cannot just tell people they are right because that is what they want to hear! It is not helping anything.
These poor yorkies who end up with people who do not really want them...makes me sick. The bleeding hearts feel sorry for a person who is angry with a little dog? ugh |
Maybe I'm wrong here, but the statement above where you are assuming that people don't want the yorkie 'cos they are frustrated and that these people make you sick isn't edging towards mean? I would at least call it judgemental. I don't consider myself a bleeding heart...I'm a Republican after all.
I understand her frustration. Maybe it's because I went thru similar frustration dealing with a baby that had colic and reflux. I love him to death, but there were times I got so overwhelmed I overreacted.
With this, I'm done. This turned into a negative thread a long while back, and I think we should just all move on. Moderators?