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Originally Posted by ladyjane  Some dogs do love crates. I believe I posted that previously in this thread. Crates should be a nice place for them, not a place they dread.
This all has nothing to do with the whys and why nots of crating. From my reading of the OP, I see someone very frustrated with her yorkie. I hope and pray that things do work out...especially for that little yorkie.
I see this thread as someone who posted for some reason...I am not clear on what that reason really was.
All I know is that everyone voiced different opinions which is how it should be. BUT, over and over again I see people saying that an opinion that they do not like is negative. Telling someone how you see things is not negative.
This stuff of going on and on and on about how people are so mean reminds me of the mother who, when a child does something wrong, says "wait until your dad gets home". There begins a lifetime of manipulation. If people on YT would simply voice their opinions and stop trying to "befriend" someone by saying only what they want to hear it would be much more productive. This business of saying...look how nice I am and how mean so and so is is not helpful in my opinion.
Why not just voice an opinion and stand behind it?
Don't go telling people you are afraid to post a question! If you are afraid, that tells me you don't want the truth...you want to hear what you want to hear! |
Then I will post an opinion. I stand by what I said. I won't say how your answering post made me feel as it could easily be construed as an attack from what I've seen. A good friend of mine posted a fairly benign remark and got banned for life. In the meantime, people who had said much worse continue to go on and on. Many people have said things like if you don't want advice or aren't going to listen to it, then don't ask. How about if you can't take having your advice ignored, don't post it. This is my last word on this site. I'm sorry to leave all my friends, but bye bye.