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Originally Posted by ladyjane  No one has been mean to anyone...and no one has said anything mean about anyone.
People are merely saying that the OP does not seem to want help.
Over and over again I see people on YT jump up and down saying someone is being mean when they are merely voicing an opinion. If people do not want advice/opinions, they should not ask!
If anyone had been so horrible to this OP, one of the moderators would have banned them! I am sure someone has reported someone in this thread!
It is so lame to me that this kind of stuff comes up all of the time. It just feeds into that enabling mode imo. Anyone ever hear of tough love? Seriously! You cannot just tell people they are right because that is what they want to hear! It is not helping anything.
These poor yorkies who end up with people who do not really want them...makes me sick. The bleeding hearts feel sorry for a person who is angry with a little dog? ugh |
I agree with everything you are saying! I have been surprised at some of the posts (including mine) that wind up being called mean and negative. A good honest opinion should not be labeled negative just because it is not the same opinion shared by someone else. Thank heavens we don't all agree on every subject. What a dull world that would be with no change, invention, or improvements. If someone does not agree with me, it is going to be helpful in one of two ways -- either I will have to further justify my own position with research, facts and examples, or....I will look at the subject a different way, maybe learn, grow and change my mind. Either way, it is a win/win situation.