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Originally Posted by ladyjane  Some dogs do love crates. I believe I posted that previously in this thread. Crates should be a nice place for them, not a place they dread.
This all has nothing to do with the whys and why nots of crating. From my reading of the OP, I see someone very frustrated with her yorkie. I hope and pray that things do work out...especially for that little yorkie.
I see this thread as someone who posted for some reason...I am not clear on what that reason really was.
All I know is that everyone voiced different opinions which is how it should be. BUT, over and over again I see people saying that an opinion that they do not like is negative. Telling someone how you see things is not negative.
This stuff of going on and on and on about how people are so mean reminds me of the mother who, when a child does something wrong, says "wait until your dad gets home". There begins a lifetime of manipulation. If people on YT would simply voice their opinions and stop trying to "befriend" someone by saying only what they want to hear it would be much more productive. This business of saying...look how nice I am and how mean so and so is is not helpful in my opinion.
Why not just voice an opinion and stand behind it?
Don't go telling people you are afraid to post a question! If you are afraid, that tells me you don't want the truth...you want to hear what you want to hear! |
I agree with you I dont think we should tell people what they want to hear. I also dont like when people come on and post about what they view as someone being negative. However I dont think everyone thats posted has Read all of the posts and especially the ops responses based on the opinion they gave. I think after she posted that the responses made her cry we could be a little more compassionate and I noticed alot of the responses did soften a bit