i agree with everyone else
and the beer and cigerattes will never END for some people..it comes before food and responsbility...i know a older couple that are on OXYGEN but wont stop smoking and are drunk by noon.. they have 1200 a mo in RX but would rather buy want they think are neccesities...smokes and beer...they are dying..and have had many chances to improve their health but wont...the father has been told he will die any day for about 2 years now...i hate giving them cash...i buy food...but when i did that it was thanks but i really need cigerattes not food...in their sixtys!!! one of the sons live with them and he is just as bad and enables them....
your husband needs to stop...i dont care how religious a person is this is ludicous (no disrepect meant) i can see helping occassionally but paying for the electric?? they most have some money because they are paying for the home...it might cause some trouble being they are right next door...but i cant understand why your husband feels obligated to pay for their bills? have you ask why he feels that way? i think there was a thing in the bible that says something about showing a person how to fish and they can catch their own food...im not a big bible reader although i would say im baptist...but paying once is helping and being christian, neighborly but constantly paying is only making the neighbor worse and more lazy....
who sees the electric bill at home? if he doesnt show him and show how you would probably have 100-200 extra a month
sorry for so long but i have seen so many pathetic looser take advantage of people i just dont have a heart for people who dont help their selves first before begging and being lazy
good luck with it all!!!!! |