i think you have been generous enough and i think it's time to cut the cord; literarly. i believe it's illegal to use extention cord and sharing electrecity. i believe these people have been playing the victim card long enough and you are just enabling them. they need to get up on their own feet. i know your husband wants to do good; however what he's feeling is guilt and pitty and that's not the right way to go about it. you, him and the kids come first; so you will be doing them a favor by cutting them off; believe me they will survive; humans are meant to thrive and they will figure out a way; good luck
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