Ok, thanks for the response. Just to let you know...don't take things personally when someone posts something that you might take offence to. I know sometimes we can 'read' differently what someone is typing. Sometimes things are not what it seems. I myself read most of the posts & it seemed (to me) that people were giving opinions (some might have been strong opinions) based on their own experiences &/or circumstances.
I wish you the best of luck & urge you to not get so emotional over other people's opinions. After all, they're just opinions.
Gosh, I've said the word opinions alot. lol