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Originally Posted by cynsir  Yes, I have read where posts have been decidedly negative. Folks, this gal has lost her darling Stormy. I do not think that this is the time or place for negativity. When she asks a question it does not mean that she's on the way to get a dog to replace Stormy. Stormy was her love and it is going to take some time to get to a spot where she will even think about getting another dog.
Please can we stop the slamming? |
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Originally Posted by CouversMom I agree.
This is supposed to be a place where we come to find support from people who understand what we are going through. I could not imagine posting after losing my Couver and getting responses like this. I hope that everyone can put themselves in her shoes and back off.
She is not asking for personal judgement about whether or not she should own another dog... but simply to hear about what others did when they lost a pup.
I hope that everyone can take this into consideration before they post and realize that she is going through a horrible time right now.
Your words affect people more than you realize. Think before you post please. |
Cynsir and Couversmom -- Where is anyone slamming her? I do not get this? What negativity? Back off of what? What personal judgement? Instead of just vaguely saying she is getting slammed, cite an example because I DO NOT SEE IT! Unless as she intimated in her last post, she is talking about another thread, and maybe you are as well, I do not see the negativity and slamming you two speak of. This is what
fans the fires and keeps things negative!
I am trying to get the OP to realize that people did NOT bring negative words to
this thread and she should not bring negative thoughts from other threads into this one. That is hard to do when others are saying she is getting slammed. I think people should either cite an example of what they think is so negative or stop trying to stir up trouble. I put a lot of time and concern into that long post to try to get her to look at this differently. Now I am not sure if you are saying I am slamming her or not. But I assure you, I tried to make sure there was NOTHING that she could even remotely take as as negative BECAUSE of the emotional time this is. But just because it is emotional, does not mean she should keep looking for some evil content that is not there. Unbelievable!