I'm so sorry! I know how hard this can be to deal with as I've been through it a few times myself! I do agree with what others have said, people are trying to comfort you and maybe just don't know what to say so something stupid like that comes out of their mouths. Just know that maybe the words are wrong but they care and don't want to see you hurting and if you think of it that way, maybe you can forgive them. But don't be afraid to come here and talk about it as we all understand what you're going thru and you will find the support you need right here! Hugs to you.....