[tammys]

Originally Posted by Amazing Yorkies

I guess what I meant was, tell her you want the girl.. And you know she doesn't want the boy. Tell her that since she doesn't want the male, you will give her the money back she has given you, and then sell the male to a good home... You will deduct 1/2 of the expenses and then give her the balance from the sale of the male to purchase the female she wants.. she may just go buy something else with the money and not get another Yorkie at all.. No feelings hurt and she gets a little extra money for NOT taking the male...

Yea, but after she said she might not want him, her dh said he did. He complained about getting a puppy during the pregnancy, and then all of the sudden he decided he wanted him.

She really wants a girl, and I think her dh is saying he wants the boy, b/c he thinks it will be cheaper to pay me half the expenses, and get the boy; as opposed to going out and finding a girl on his own.

I think this is a struggle for her b/c the pups are half her dog's, and half my dog's. She loves my girl (the mama), and would love to have a baby that is from both of them.

I have all the receipts, and I think they will be surprised how things have added up, so hopefully, that will be the deciding factor.