[maggiesmom_2007]

Originally Posted by Nancy1999

I didn't think it was critical of me specifically, but of all those who gave any type of warning. Forgive me if I'm wrong, but you seem to be saying, that if we give a warning we most also, post congratulations, or people will consider us rude? Maybe some haven't posted because they've been busy, or didn't think a congratulatory post was as important as a warning post. She was getting lots of well wishes posts, I didn't think mine would be missed, or felt the need to add it, it didn't mean I wasn't happy for her! Gosh, I didn't even realize people noticed, if I didn't post back on threads. I'm just saying that we should give members the benefit of the doubt, and believe they are happy, about a happy ending.

I forgive you because you are wrong. I am not saying anyone has to do anything. I am just saying there is a difference between giving warnings and being blatantly rude. You are replying as if i was directing my post at you which I was not. Had I posted the person name my original post was directed towards I would have been the rude one. So i made a general post in hopes that the person it was directed at would read it and realize they came across that way and maybe keep in mind the next time they post not to be so harsh and negative. But maybe since you seem to be the only one replying to my post you thought it was directed at you personally People realize more than you know but most won't say a word..