[jeanm1963]

While I feel horribly bad for these kids I just really have to blame the parents, Kate more then Jon. Having 8 children is hard , Yes, however, there are millions of people who do it everyday. My MIL had 8 children under 11 years old my FIL left her for a younger woman. She had her first child at 17 never had a job and didnt know much other then housework and babies.. Well she did it, she got a full time time, managed to become Head of ATT office locally and used team work with her children. No they werent spoiled , they didnt have matching outfits , she didnt have a vehicle that fit all the kids comfortably but she managed.... They did alot of family cookouts, day trips to the beach , and picnics , those are days my xhusband will forever be greatful for, he loved his mother because she did stuggle to make ends meet, she didnt take a traveling postion because her children meant more to her, she turned down many oportunities to excel in her company because the hours were not good for her children.... She had 8 kids and did it on 1 income, no alimony and very little child support. They had a nice home and special days togehter... What Kate needs to understand is while having a beautiful home and lots of money in the bank is great, it has its consquences as well. paperazzi, living in a fishbowl and a nanny raising her children... I cant take the poor me's because THIS IS WHAT SHE CHOSE.. IT WAS NOT CHOSEN FOR HER... I just honestly feel badly for the children that they will not only have no grandparents, no aunts and uncles , no more Nana , and now with all this going on Im sure Jon will move on to differnt things and not see the kids as often as he was!! Sad Sad SAd