[JuicyGirl]

Originally Posted by Bizzymammabee

Honestly they are both pathetic. He is a real piece of work. In his interview he says "I have to do what is right for me" then he realizes he needs to add the children. You know he is just pathetic and I have no respect for him. No matter what type of a shrew she was his marriage was worth more than what he put into it. He could easily have opened his mouth and grown a pair of balls and they could have sought out counseling.

The second thing he said was that he missed out on a lot and he is only 32 and can start that next chapter. How hideous is that to say. He should have thought that he needed to sow wild oats before he got married etc. Now we have these 8 innocent children in the middle of this whole mess.

They both forgot what was important..their vows and their family that they decided to make. She let making money get to her head but honestly he never seemed like a man with much ambition to me.

If you feel like less of a man then get your self a job and contribute to your household. Doing that show was a blessing. Who else gets to be home and watch their children grow.

If he is not happy about the show then you shouldn't be willy nilly spending the money you earn from it. It should be put into trust for your children.

I am so sad and disgusted right now. Those children deserve better. He checked out of his marriage way before this split.

I in no way condone the way she got on him but at the same time it's hard enough raising 8 children to have to add a lazy husband that was happy to let you run the show because it meant less work for him.

If John were my brother I would have taken a bat to him. How do you profess to love your children when your actions just indicate the exact opposite. His older girls have friends who I am sure their mammas read tabloids. When things started getting hinky he had to know that information would trickle back and hurt his girls. He should have just seperated from Kate instead of acting like some hormonal teenager and letting that all get out where his girls would find out.

If I were Kate I would have whipped her a$$. No matter what problems a marriage is having you never ever get in the middle of that. They had children. If Kate were my sister you best to be sure I would be looking for that girl to give her the beating of a life time. If she were interested in him she should have acted like a smart woman and said you know what when your a single man come and see me but in the interim I will not be a homewrecker. She knew the man was a father with 8 children. God is going to punish her for her nastiness. Let's see how long she will be interested in him when he is making next to nothing and paying child support out the yang. I would take his a$$ to the cleaners because his infidelity is easily documented.

I feel bad for her. No matter how bad things were they could have gotten counseling, he could have opened his mouth and stepped up like a man. They could have and should have tried to fix their marriage and honor those vows before ever stepping outside of that. No matter what he never should have treated her that way and wrecked his family like that. Kate could be called a lot of things but no woman or man should be disrespected and treated like that. Cheating is not the answer to anything.

I hope he lives to regret his stupid decision and see what he gave up to sow his wild oats and live this youth that he feels he missed.

She is a strong woman and will move on from this whole mess and make the best of things. She will easily find someone and let's see how he likes it when he sees that she has moved on.

The biggest loser in all of this are those beautiful children.

you are so right!!!