[capt_noonie]

Originally Posted by Gigi485

Thanks for the words of encouragement and welcome to my nightmare.

I lost it yesterday and wigged out on our HR Manager. I mean WIGGED OUT. Oh man, I really went off on her and completely lost my cool. The F bomb was dropped several times, I made the poor woman cry. I feel bad that I went there but I just exploded, when I was told that this most recent guy said that he was "just being playful" and "it wasn't really meant in a sexual way".....I'm like...."REALLY? Playful?....well then I guess his wife won't mind it when she finds out that he's already cheated on her with another female employee?" She almost fell on the floor. I was like - "you have NO idea what is going on. He took advantage of one young female employee who was 23 and he's almost 40, is married and has 2 children! And now, he's looking for his next conquest!" I said, this is war and this pig is not going to make me out to look like some prude who took a "playful gesture" out of context and is making a big deal out of nothing. F Him!

She called me this morning and I thought I was going to get in trouble for insubordination and the foul language....but before she could say anything, I apologized for using that language - I felt bad cause she started crying again and told me she is really working on this for me and that she promised this would NEVER happen again. I told her that this was strike 3 in my book and if any man EVER touches me again that this company...which is a very LARGE Corporation is going to have a HUGE problem and it's going to be ME! I will call the Mass Dept of Labor and file a charge against the company. I will call the Boston Globe and I will contact the CEO in the US and in Japan and my nightmare will become their nightmare. My Sicilian blood is boiling...I got a long fuse, but when I've reached my limit. It ain't pretty.

I just read this thread! I feel for you! I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. I hope everything works out. *Hugs* Stay strong!