I'm so sorry you will soon be going through a divorce. It's never an easy situation to go through. Some divorces can get nastier than others but none of them are easy. I hope that yours will not be one of the "nastier" ones as that just makes it all the more difficult. Don't assume that the furbutts have to stay with your wife because you have just as much right to them as she does. Hopefully you guys can work something out since it sounds like you and Bella have really bonded. (Not to offend any lawyers but sometimes the lawyers and the process can create more issues than were there to begin with.) See if you can both come to an agreement that's in the best interests of the furbutts when making arrangements for them. This divorce will not only effect you guys but them as well, just like it would skin kids. I wish you the best of luck and again, I'm so sorry your going through this rough patch in life. |