I'm glad that you were able to come up with a plan to be able to see him now, and then in July as well. I know that if something were to happen you would have regrets if you didn't go, so being with him will be good for you and you have an excellent husband who will make sure everything is ok on the homefront. I also wanted to let you know I will keep your father in my prayers, I too had a situation with my father where he was in failing health and there were some times when we were told to get to him asap because he might not make it. The sadest part is one of those times will be the last time
My thoughts are with you and your family