Let me tell you, I have been thru this with my parents and still going thru it. It is rough. My Mom always makes things sound worse and my Dad is always so positive. He is the one with the heart problems. He has congestive heart failure. He got an ICD about 7 yrs ago. I just want you to know that no matter how much pressure other people put on you, you must do what you feel you need to. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Keep us informed