Thanks everyone for your well wishes.
I really Really don't think he is That bad off .. after having talked to him today.
I asked him and my mom straight out! If I thought he had taken a turn for the worse I would (by now) be on my way.
I still want to go.
My mom said it wasn't an emergency. I told her that my sister said it Was. My mom said "well that was before when he went to the hospital"
I told her "no, she called yesterday LOL"
So .. it's best I go and see for myself. Who knows maybe he HAS worsened and my mom is in denial.
My Dad sounded pretty good on the phone though.
I already bought my plane ticket.. and Yes I decided to go alone.
So I can focus without distraction on my parents.
I hope and pray he can just improve from this rough patch in order to get his surgery.
My husband is taking Thursday off and is either going to take our boy to work with him LOL (he is self employed) or else family will keep him one day. |