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Originally Posted by Brooklynn  But take this into consideration please....you see some have already posted agreeing with me and I'm assuming do not find me being rude or without having tact. I'm sorry if my honesty when I say stiffling but that is "exactly" how some of us actually feel. Why can't our feelings be taken into account as well as yours? I don't know everything about yorkies and when I think I do then it's time for me to get out of the breeding and showing aspect of it, I've always said that. Those that know me know I'm blunt but tactful. I didn't see this thread as being rude or not tactful but an honest feeling that "SOME" of us actually feel
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How do you want your feelings to be taken into account? If someone says they are a reputable breeder, it's against the rules to close their thread? I'm seriously asking: what do you want to talk about that you don't get to?
I personally think that "blunt but tactful" is an oxymoron. Maybe you manage to pull it off, in which case, I am truly impressed and want to be you. I guess what is bothering me is that if you tell it like it is... well, of course some people are going to be offended. That's the definition of bluntness. If you can live with offending people, that's up to you, but you can't be rude and AND demand that people ignore it.