when i was engaged my x had owed 10,000 on his credit cards and i had
a zero balance. i told him he had to pay it off before i married him..
i wasnt going into a relationship paying his debt.. so he did and we got married and we started off fresh, no debt..
now if i get married again, i will have to have a prenup signed , without a doubt. reason being, now i almost own my house by myself and its almost paid for. worked my tail off for it and you bet no one will ever take it away from me.
i know if you love someone you shouldnt ask for a prenup, but the heck with that..you just never know and thats scary. i learned my lesson once and thats good enough for me.. even dr. phil said on his show once to get a prenup signed especially if you own something big.... im sure he loves you with all his heart, just try to understand where he is coming from.
good luck. |