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Originally Posted by Angela  I personally don't think I could ever sign a pre nup just b/c its like going into a mttiage planning on failing...in my opion. However, I uderstand that a lot of people have no problem with signing one.....the thing that bothers me the most or makes me wonder the most about what you posted is : He wants you to have three months salary and you cc paid off....What if during the marriage you loose your job or want / need time off?? I certainly hope this never happens to you, but what if? I don't know, I would be hurt, upset, and insulted with what he has proposed you do in order to marry him.
Good Luck,
Angie |
Hmmm, I agree with this answer and previous ones.. I feel this is an eye opener for you .... is this how you want your husband to be with you? is this how you want to live your life? While getting your finances in order before marrying is smart .... what are his thoughts on ... staying home to raise and enjoy your babies? will he resent you and want you to go to work? sounds like a good time to talk about many things, then step back and wonder is this how I want my life to be? better for you to explore this now than after you are married. Lots of good wishes for you.
