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Originally Posted by tammy8833  i remember this thread, and i had the exact same thought the first and second time i read this post. the situation is extremely sad but i wouldnt felt comfortable letting one of my puppies go. im a breeder and i have volunteered off and on on for years with the same shelter and they would have said "no" on your application before you signed it.
im not a cruel person and i dont believe the other person was being cruel, but trying to let you see another side that you might face when looking. Im sure you were able to get another yorkie. Every breeder is different and look at things differently. There are tons of people that breed and dont care what happens after the money is in their hands and there are some that are extremely strick on what home their puppies go to and there are some with big hearts that want to do right by people.
its always differcult to hear somehing negative in your favor, but you have to look at your situration through someone elses eyes. Everyone makes mistakes, i have had my own terrible misfortune on here and if someone turned me down for their puppy i would understand, of course i dont want to hear it and im sure it would hurt my feelings but i would understand and respect it.
i know things can tend to get very negative very quick on here at times, but for the most part i dont think thats people intentions. i think they are people being nice and their are people who state the facts and some times there are people pouring salt in the wound. but i dont think that was the case on this thread at all.
i dont think the poster was arrogant or insenstive at all
i have heard this numerous time and totally agree with it, you have no idea the tone by the "typed" sentences. |
You can think whatever you want. I do not come on YT because of people like that anymore. I DO find that post arrogant and inappropriate.
As another poster wrote, "I am so sorry about the terrible tragedy. I believe from your post that you Mom will have her own condo and not living with you and your large dog correct? I would look on here on the for sale section. I am sure you know that your dog cannever be around small dogs again.
This was more than appropriate and thoughtful.
I am not going to argue about the "tone" with anyone. I'm not stupid, and I found it condescending. Putting some thought into how you are saying something goes a long way! I do not buy into the nonsense that this is an
open forum and anybody can state their opinion. Very often, it isn't what you say, but how you say it.
At any rate, you can think whatever you like. I don't like people who are arrogant, and I do not come here anymore because of them.