You must stand firm with your desisons. You must be together on how to raise a teen. They will play both of you...Stand firm together and love one another. The best gift we can give our kids is to love our sposes. The kids will feel secure. You need one on one with both boys. What does your oldest son like to do for fun. Take him to a concert or a show or something that will give you a one on one with him. Do this once a month. Take him out for a burger and have talk. I raised 3 girls so I have walked in your shoes. It will get better around 17 or 18. Remember, you need to communicate. Find our if something is bothering him at school. Teens will hold in their feelings. G |