Please be patient with your little baby =). They are little stinkers lol but I feel you on having pee and poo over the room and even on bed
but have you ever tried the potty training aid spray? Thats how I taught Mimi to go on pad. She used to rip up her wee wee pads too. Then I got the wee wee pad holder. its like blue and a white frame that goes on top of it and the sides have locks. Hopefully she will master potty training soon =D