Hey Girly....
I am also a newlywed (will be a year in August) and Snickers came into my life 2nd after my sweetheart husband. I am going to be upfront and count my blessings by saying that I think my husband loves Snickers more than me sometimes haha. He wouldn't mind taking Snickers everywhere, but you have to think about the NORM. So many people own dogs, small and large and the NORMAL thing to do is leave your dog at home when you run errands and when you go out to eat. It is not a question in our home, when we run errands and go out, Snick stays home. It's our time together and it's what society does and how things just are. Your husband might feel uncomfortable or weird that you're carrying your pup everywhere when generally people do not do that. He also has a good point that he wants time with you. We both also work and Snick is home alone from 9am-3:30pm and we don't like leaving him home when we have stuff to do, but we also have to have a life as well to meet up friends, socialize, and to run errands. Don't forget how important these 1st few years of marriage are for us...
Hugs!!
Ps..I have a carrier for Snick and want to take him everywhere but I fear of getting kicked out of places!!