wow sad thread to read ..
meh.. i have never understood American logic with anything health related as it seems to be a jumbo iron wall comes up when insurance is not on hand for stuff ..
seems the same thing with pets
soo soo sad that there is no help available when crisis happen
in England its soo different ..usualy run up the bill then the questions of payment happen not show us your purse contents first
hope your baby gets the help needed and hope you have a great update to give .. *prays*