ILoVeEMiNnie: Thank you for your advice. I do think that what she said was very criticle and somewhat judging me and thats why I think i was very upset by it. I am like you too I have a hard time saying no and I LOVE to avoid any conflict and I give myself to everybody and I feel like its my job to help people but with her I feel like I give too much and I help her too much. I will never change for her or for anyone. Thanks again it did help.
roxies_mom: you completly have her sumed up in exactly what you said. I believe that she is jelous and she is very controling (why her bf and her are having problems). She does want to be with me every free min she has which is why she calls me like 5 - 8 times a day. But I have not ever talked to her about this so I said this is strike one, I think I am going to talk to her if it happens two more times I am done with the friendship.
luvfla: Thank you, I appricate your advice. Do you think that it would be fair to her to give her another chance or do you think that its time to say enough is enough?
Ashley V: Wow I am sorry about your friend and her boyfriend and how that made you feel. I guess that makes me think too that I need to be sensitive to her and maybe not talk about mine and julios relationship to her while she's in a hard time.
DvlshAngel985: People are really rude sometiems when it comes to cars. Its all about what car you drive and if you do drive haha. Its sad it really is.
manolos mom: Thank you very much. I like the last thing you said to me "you will have one or two good friends in your life everyone else are acquantances" Right now I am really realizing this. I try very hard not to see color either and I do not judge people becasue of the way that they are. Her and I were raised with very different values and morals I think this is why we dont see eye to eye.
Sorry I like to address everyone seprately because then i know that I didnt leave anyones advice out. Thank you all very much I really appriciate it.
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