Thread: How do I deal?
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Old 04-03-2009, 12:35 PM   #30
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Originally Posted by amandawash View Post
I think you have to be good with the fact it will always be your fault. My M-I-L does not outwardly insult me, but if you consider not addressing me ever I guess she does. She wouldn't talk to me at my freakin' wedding! After the ceremony I had to go up to HER and she still never said congrats or anything. Plus, she caused HUGE drama the night before the wedding so at that point I was DONE.

I told dh that if he wants to use me as an excuse as to why we don't go there more often, that's fine. I rather her be mad at me that my husband, who I know cares more than he says.
I'm sure your hubby does care, it's terrible when they get pulled from wives and parents. I did that years ago when I was in my 20's and hubby worked for his parents. They wanted him at the office on weekends and I wanted him home with me and the kids. It ended up costing us a lot of problems in our marriage, and we actually did separate for awhile. I look back now and see what he went through, I'm just glad he never put me through what I put him through
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