Oh man this isn't good! You need to nip this in the bud right away!!! I was a young Mom at 21 and single because once the baby came my boyfriend was done playing house.You need to sit down with paper on hand and talk about the expenses of taking care of a baby and how much sleep and privacy you lose.Make sure to tell her that the baby will depend on her always.Be tough on her and say I took over taking care of your dog I won't do the same for this baby.She needs to know the outcome of having a child so young.It is a BIG struggle.Sounds like the bf friend needs to go bye bye.
I feel for what you are going through,not only with the dog but your daughters way of thinking.School is very important,make sure he understand a woman without a degree,struggles because they will never be paid what they are treully worth.Guys can go out and get a job right out of Highschool and do fine,not a woman.Those are facts.Write everything down on cost Rent,Ins,car payment,groceries,ect ect...and then show it to her with a childs cost included.Maybe seeing all this will make her realize to wait until she is out of College and in a good paying job and married.I would LOVE to talk with her and she could come to my house and stay a wk. and take care of my kids,I bet she would change her mind then
I have a soon to be 13 yr. old daughter who says she is NEVER having kids.I also have a 2 and 3 yr. old so she has expierenced the late nights and the crying.She says there annoying.