Just tell them to go out have fun what do they want to be tied down with a dog and all the bills.... who needs a dog when u have a boyfriend to entertain u and forget about little Bella we love her and she is staying with us ...u may have gotten her but u left her behind with us and now we can not let her go ..and if all else fails just do not make urself available with Bella...summer is coming and maybe they should do some travelling her and the boyfriend places to see ..things to do ...and forget about that little Bella shes at the right place right there with u