I have a question for you. Who is paying for DD's college? Where does she live when she's not at school? Does she have a car? If so who paid for that or who's name is it in? If she has a car I'm assuming she has to insure it and buy gas? I have kids this age. They think they're so independant and in charge but usaully on Mom and/or Dad's dime. I'm sure being her Mom you have some pull somehow. How would she feel if you would have dumped her here and there as a helpless innocent child especially with people she didn't like or barely know? She's surely got some compassion in her bones. Right now she's just fighting you to fight you. |