If you were to pick again would you pick male or female, and why?
For some reason I think female are cleaner (maybe its human experience?

), but I think in memory of my wee Millie, I should get a boy this time.
My mum in law says we should get another wee girl the same and call her Millie
I am afraid people will think I am trying to replace her, so a boy would be totally different.