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Originally Posted by LuvmyYorkies2  Believe me, I understand your frustration given the amount of money you've put out. Are you trying to continue communicating with her privately and calmly(I know this can be difficult but nothing can get solved if all parties are too emotional)? Is she saying she is not willing to give you back any money? Sorry you're going through this! |
It's perfectly fine, it's turned into a long thread and at this point is hard to follow especially for people like me with ADD. =) haha
She is offerring a refund minus the vet bill (which as stated included half of the cost for her dogs not Emma, and only $15 of it for anything relating to her actual travel expense), and minus the shipping here and back and only COD (cash on delivery) but it's good enough for US to send the money to her prior to her travel to us.... I'm weary of her unwillingness to meet us half way here.
If you take the $120? vet bill, $174 each way, the $70 for her specific payment method we're down $538 ish? It's 50% of our investment, how is that right when we are the ones that were taken advantage of? she doesn't seem to really want the dog back she's trying to guilt us into making it work and trying to make it such a financial loss that no one would consent to the return, chances are we could turn around and sell Emma for 400-500 locally, and she knows that.
For the seller, take Gina's number and change the last digit to 4 and you have my number, you are more than welcome to call me. I'm at work so if I can't answer leave me a message and I'll call you back. I just tried to let Gina take care of it because she's a lot nicer than I am. But I'm far from an unreasonable person. I just wont let anyone dick me around and screw me.
Most people can't deal with the tension and the reality of it but there is just no better way to put things. It's just what it comes down to whether you only want to think it or say it. Obviously beating around the bush hasn't gotten anywhere with the seller. I just can't stand by and bite my tongue any longer because this whole situation is just wrong and someone needed to say it, though nothing that I've said hasn't been incinuated multiple times throughout the thread by numerous YT members.