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Originally Posted by wantayorkie23  Thanks Guys. I was also looking at Oprah the other day with Steve Harvey and he was saying that if a man really cared about you he will give you a title. (girlfriend or something). Deep down inside I know it's wrong for talking to him cause it is like saying it's ok to cheat on her but i don't want to just never speak to him again. Even if he gets married I do want to keep a friendship with him. And I know that he is a DOG! But I just know his good side and he really means alot to me.
He lost both of his parents so I think thats the reason why he asked her to marry him. I think he is scared of being alone. He was even asking me about how I felt about it when we was together and when we broke up he told me that in two years he was going to ask me to marry him in two years but I just pushed him away because Im not even ready to ever talk about marriage. I think the reason I still talk to him also is because I feel bad for him because he had a really bad past and sometimes I use that as an excuse as his behavior.
But how can I tell him what we are doing are wrong without him getting mad and keep that friendship with him. |
Lets face it..if you two really just wanted to be "friends"....you would have met his fiance' along time ago...and would be friends with her also. Honestly i think you're just making excuses cause you still love him. If you're afraid that you cant be honest with him without him getting upset? Then whats the point of having him as a friend? I know with my friends that if i tell them something ....they may be upset...but they will still be my friend.