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Originally Posted by speleogirl37

UH...No, I don't see it working. Run far far away. It will be less painful now, then later if you get involved in a relationship!!

Originally Posted by Breeze

I went through this many years ago too, and still hurts 15 years later at times from the pain it caused me. If he loves you, he would not be engaged period to her. He would be with you. I believed all the lies and was blindsided when he picked her and married her. Everything he said meant nothing, about being unhappy, breaking it off............................................... ..........................

The key words are "she' is his "fiancee" not you.

In the end no-one will win. He is unhappy with both, cause he is not truely commiting to either. The woman, the one who loses him or the one who he decides to be with lose because men like this do not commit.

I would move on even though I know how much it hurts. If a man is not committed to his fiancee who would he truely be commited to?

Originally Posted by Graleyne

If they will cheat WITH you, they will cheat ON you.

Best piece of advice I ever received and it is very true. Even though he isn't technically cheating by just talking to you, in a way he is. He is making you believe he would be willing to work things out with you while he is still engaged to her. That is wrong. If he REALLY wanted to do that, he would break things off with her.

Great advice ladies. I have nothing to add!!