i'm a hairstylist! and i am VERY particular about my work!!
if my client was unhappy i would want to know.. if she is your normal stylist, and you are a loyal client.. i don't think she would have a problem fixing it for you!!
even if you said the cut can't really be fixed.. maybe she can blend it some, or perhaps soften it, so it doesn't look so harsh? also.. if she were to fix the color, i guarantee that would make you feel SO much better about it!
good luck! and i hope you get it all worked out!!

COME TO CA. i'll fix ya up!!