I went through this many years ago too, and still hurts 15 years later at times from the pain it caused me. If he loves you, he would not be engaged period to her. He would be with you. I believed all the lies and was blindsided when he picked her and married her. Everything he said meant nothing, about being unhappy, breaking it off............................................... ..........................
The key words are "she' is his "fiancee" not you.
In the end no-one will win. He is unhappy with both, cause he is not truely commiting to either. The woman, the one who loses him or the one who he decides to be with lose because men like this do not commit.
I would move on even though I know how much it hurts. If a man is not committed to his fiancee who would he truely be commited to? |